Bismillahirrahmaanirraheem....
Alhamdulillah.. banyak kesempatan utk aku coretkan serba sedikit hari ni.. Lately I'm aware of some hot issues that happened here & there.. Antaranya Dato' Sri Najib Razak menang tanpa bertanding jawatan Presiden UMNO, Obama menang Presiden US (for the 1st time dari warga Kulit Hitam), Harga Minyak Petrol di Malaysia turun 15sen / Harga Minyak dunia jatuh ke $60 setong, Razak Baginda diputuskan tidak bersalah bersubahat dgn pembunuhan Altantuya, kes khalwat Norman Hakin-Memey melibatkan rumahtangga Abby, Raja Petra dibebaskan kerana penahanan beliau tidak sah dan bermacam2 lagi... Hmm.. improving... if not.. i'm always outdated on any latest issues.. Ni pun if someone ask about other issues, there might be a lot of things that I'm still not aware off.. but atleast not all issues I have missed out.. :p
Anyway, last week I received call from someone who share about the husband's condition.. which I reserve my word on him.. Pity to the wife who is pregnant right now.. the husband is looking for someone else & thinking to have the 2nd one.. Looks that he still love both of them.. it makes me think of the issue of Norman-Abby.. but the husband not up to that 'caught' thingy..
At the same time, she suspect that the husband is suffering of 'black magic' (dlm bahasa lebih lembut.. kena bomoh/mandrem @ sewaktu dgnnya..huhu..) But she didnt put the word on it.. because according to her "tak baik gak nk tuduh2"..
However, my advice to her is.. banyak amalkan 3Qul (surah An-Nas, Al-Falaq & Al-Ikhlas) + Aayatul-Kursiy.. Amalkan membaca setiap2 kali after solat, boleh juga ditiupkan pada minuman suami.. (pada kebiasaan, air yg ditiupkan dgn bacaan AlQuran, adalah penawar... even, Dr.Harun Din pun guna air kosong utk diberi kpd pesakit).. Doa lah mudah2an segala perkara yg tak baik dilakukan kepada suaminya dijauhkan oleh Allah s.w.t.. I got this tips from 2 of my Ustaz from UIA.. according to them, Rasulullah menganjurkan utk membaca perkara2 di atas.. tiada perantara @ jampi2 serapah yg lain utk perkara itu.. (both is having the same thought)..
Positively, the wife is in a good condition & take it as a test from Allah to them.. But according to her, sometimes she feel that she really in a weak conditon, no energy at all to face all these things.. & feel to give up... However she has to force herself to encounter the feelings..
And surprisingly, the husband did share the same issue to me, and I also advice the same thing to the husband (to recite those surah everytime especially after solat).. since I also hightlite the same feeling of his wife about 'black magic' thingy.. (he didnt know that the wife has contacted me though..)
At the same time he told me that he cant stop forget the girl & want to take the girl as a 2nd.. I did ask him to perform Solat hajat & istikharah.. the rest is leave it to Allah to decide what is good for him & the family... But my warning to him, if the 'petunjuk' says that not to marry the girl.. "takkan ko nk proceed gak??..if this is not good for you???".. I just leave that question to him to asnwer himself..
Whatever it is, serahkan kepada Allah sebaik2 pemilik ke atas sesuatu.. Mudah2an Allah menentukan yg terbaik utk keluarga mereka.. Ameen...
Alhamdulillah.. banyak kesempatan utk aku coretkan serba sedikit hari ni.. Lately I'm aware of some hot issues that happened here & there.. Antaranya Dato' Sri Najib Razak menang tanpa bertanding jawatan Presiden UMNO, Obama menang Presiden US (for the 1st time dari warga Kulit Hitam), Harga Minyak Petrol di Malaysia turun 15sen / Harga Minyak dunia jatuh ke $60 setong, Razak Baginda diputuskan tidak bersalah bersubahat dgn pembunuhan Altantuya, kes khalwat Norman Hakin-Memey melibatkan rumahtangga Abby, Raja Petra dibebaskan kerana penahanan beliau tidak sah dan bermacam2 lagi... Hmm.. improving... if not.. i'm always outdated on any latest issues.. Ni pun if someone ask about other issues, there might be a lot of things that I'm still not aware off.. but atleast not all issues I have missed out.. :p
Anyway, last week I received call from someone who share about the husband's condition.. which I reserve my word on him.. Pity to the wife who is pregnant right now.. the husband is looking for someone else & thinking to have the 2nd one.. Looks that he still love both of them.. it makes me think of the issue of Norman-Abby.. but the husband not up to that 'caught' thingy..
At the same time, she suspect that the husband is suffering of 'black magic' (dlm bahasa lebih lembut.. kena bomoh/mandrem @ sewaktu dgnnya..huhu..) But she didnt put the word on it.. because according to her "tak baik gak nk tuduh2"..
However, my advice to her is.. banyak amalkan 3Qul (surah An-Nas, Al-Falaq & Al-Ikhlas) + Aayatul-Kursiy.. Amalkan membaca setiap2 kali after solat, boleh juga ditiupkan pada minuman suami.. (pada kebiasaan, air yg ditiupkan dgn bacaan AlQuran, adalah penawar... even, Dr.Harun Din pun guna air kosong utk diberi kpd pesakit).. Doa lah mudah2an segala perkara yg tak baik dilakukan kepada suaminya dijauhkan oleh Allah s.w.t.. I got this tips from 2 of my Ustaz from UIA.. according to them, Rasulullah menganjurkan utk membaca perkara2 di atas.. tiada perantara @ jampi2 serapah yg lain utk perkara itu.. (both is having the same thought)..
Positively, the wife is in a good condition & take it as a test from Allah to them.. But according to her, sometimes she feel that she really in a weak conditon, no energy at all to face all these things.. & feel to give up... However she has to force herself to encounter the feelings..
And surprisingly, the husband did share the same issue to me, and I also advice the same thing to the husband (to recite those surah everytime especially after solat).. since I also hightlite the same feeling of his wife about 'black magic' thingy.. (he didnt know that the wife has contacted me though..)
At the same time he told me that he cant stop forget the girl & want to take the girl as a 2nd.. I did ask him to perform Solat hajat & istikharah.. the rest is leave it to Allah to decide what is good for him & the family... But my warning to him, if the 'petunjuk' says that not to marry the girl.. "takkan ko nk proceed gak??..if this is not good for you???".. I just leave that question to him to asnwer himself..
Whatever it is, serahkan kepada Allah sebaik2 pemilik ke atas sesuatu.. Mudah2an Allah menentukan yg terbaik utk keluarga mereka.. Ameen...
2 comments:
Salam,
Alahai,cuba Myzwar tanya si suami
1. berani mengaku diri beristeri 2 tak di khalayak ramai, depan saudara mara dan buat permohonan poligami turun naik mahkamah berbulan-bulan?
2. sanggup mengeluarkan belanja yg adil untuk 2 rumahtangga tanpa bantuan kedua-dua isteri?
3. Sanggup bergilir malam dengan adil,selang semalam atau dua malam sebab yg penat dia juga nanti
4. dah sedia peraturan baru utk beraya puasa, raya haji, bercuti dll, ingat kena adil
5. sudah berbincang dgn org yg berpengalaman poligami/ustaz yg neutral dl hal ini?
tanya bakal isteri ke2
1. sanggup diri dicemuh, dikritik dan dilabel sbg perampas suami orang/pegacau/pompuan gatal, walaupun diri tak bersalah
2. sanggup bersabar dgn karenah isteri pertama/keluarga pihak suami dan org2 awam yg belum dpt terima dia
3. sanggup mendengar cakap suami dan berbaik sangka dgn isteri pertama pada setiap masa?
4. sudah berbincang dgn keluarga sendiri ttg diri yg bakal menjadi isteri ke2
5. sudah berjanji tidak akan meminta suami memilih antara diri dgn isteri pertama sehingga bila2?
tanya isteri sedia ada
1. sanggup lihat suami sedih/frust/ main kayu tiga / maksiat di luar rumah kerana hajat tak dikecapi?
2. sanggup menanggung dosa menghalang suami bernikah lain sehingga suami menganggung risiko ditangkap basah?
3. apa yang lebih afdhal, berkongsi suami dan berbaik2 dgn isteri ke2 & dihormati atau bermasam muka dgn suami sehingga boleh menjejaskan kesihatan sendiri/kemungkinan bergelar ibu tunggal?
4. sudah berbincang dgn ustazah yg neutral dlm hal poligami?
Diharap semua pihak bersabar. Sebaik-baiknya buat keputusan selepas kelahiran anak itu. Jumpa wanita kedua itu ditemani rakan supaya dpt menjaga kehormatan diri. Adakan perbincangan dgn keluarga sebelah si suami kerana mungkin keluarga suami tidak dpt terima kehadiran menantu tambahan. wallahu'alam
Jazakillah & terima kasih di atas komen Kak Aliya.. Sangat2 berguna... & sedikit sebanyak membantu usaha saya.. Mudah2an Allah membantu mereka menghadapi ujian ini... Wallahua'lam..
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